Dhika Welon: Oktober 2015

ARTICLE

TITLE: FLIRTING STYLE DEFINE A RELATIONSHIP

By Group 6 :

1. Hendrikus Bili Ngongo ( 2131000320115)

2. K.Nv.Mikaella (2131000320065)

3. Maria Maya (2131000320083)

4. Ferdinandes Dhae Tai (2131000320095)

INSTITUT KEGURUAN DAN ILMU PENDIDIKAN BUDI UTOMO MALANG

FAKULTAS PENDIDIKAN ILMU SOSIAL DAN HUMANIORA

JURUSAN PENDIDIKAN BAHASA INGGRIS

2015

INTRODUCTION

Flirting style can influence the type of relationship that will be undertaken.Style is one of the way that often be used in a relationship. Flirting style can be define how someone make gestures (pshycal action), their relationship more tend did not long last while someone used polite style,their relationship will be tend long last.

CONTENS

The researchers discover they who use seductive style who likes to play with the physical action that more tend attract intention that is seeking short-term relationship which nonserious, while flirting polite and sincere style can attract intension pair to long last relationship. The discovery was obtained from a reseach taht is involving more than 5,100 people, by observing their way of communicating romantic interest, as reported by the Telegraph, Monday (27/09/2015).

Researchers from the University of Kansas, the United States has identified five styles of flirting.Dr. Jeffrey Hall, PhD, assistant professor of communication studies, said the research results can also match the five styles flirting with the kinds of relationships that will be owned by teaser.

1. Playful Flirting Stilye

Flirting is not the way to achieve the main goal for the teaser of this type. They are tease just to maintain his dignity. Teaser this type are usually not interested in dating in the long term and tend to have relationships that are less meaningful.

2. Physical Flirting Style

Someone who likes flirting style is typically not hesitate to express his interest in someone he liked. This type is often undergo relationship so quickly and have emotional and physical relationship is strong.

3. Traditional Flirting Style

This teaser types still adhere to the old values. They think that it should be men who pursue women. This type is believed that men should know exactly who the woman who became his target before trying to ask her out.

4. polite flirting style

A person who likes the style of flirting like this always follow the rules and teasing are nonsexual. Sometimes they are very slow to start, but if he has been able to establish a relationship with someone, then the relationship will be quite significant.

5. sincere flirting style

This teaser types always want to know that you are working on. Generally, they have a genuine interest to establish an emotional bond with you. This type were held by women than men. Relationships established through sincere temptation is likely to be meaningful and full of emotional ties.

Although everyone show off aspects of each style, for most people is one aspect will dominate other aspects, and this can affect the type of the person and the relationship that is interested in what is done by him. Dr. Hall said that if you do not like the type of person who is interested in what you do, it probably means that you have to change your flirting technique to be successful to get what you like. "The style tempting indeed tend to reflect personality and we do not say that you can change your style completely but some changes can help you get the right person for a relationship," he said. "In some ways, the very beginning of a relationship is critical to the success of long-lasting relationships including marriage."

CONCLUSION

Based on our discuss can be concluded that a relationship can be lost-lasting or short-lasting depending on the way approach that we do. And the success of a relationship is sincerity and honesty.

REFERENCE

http://sainspop.blogspot.co.id/2010/11/gaya-menggoda-tentukan-hubungan.html

http://bacaanmu.blogspot.co.id/2011/03/5-gaya-flirting-menggoda.html