ARTICLE
TITLE: FLIRTING STYLE DEFINE A RELATIONSHIP
By
Group 6 :
1. Hendrikus Bili Ngongo (
2131000320115)
2. K.Nv.Mikaella
(2131000320065)
3. Maria Maya
(2131000320083)
4. Ferdinandes Dhae Tai
(2131000320095)
INSTITUT KEGURUAN DAN
ILMU PENDIDIKAN BUDI UTOMO MALANG
FAKULTAS PENDIDIKAN ILMU
SOSIAL DAN HUMANIORA
JURUSAN PENDIDIKAN BAHASA
INGGRIS
2015
INTRODUCTION
Flirting style
can influence the type of relationship that
will be undertaken.Style is one of the way that often be used in a
relationship. Flirting style can be define how someone make gestures (pshycal
action), their relationship more tend did not long last while someone used
polite style,their relationship will be tend long last.
CONTENS
The
researchers discover they who use seductive style who likes
to play with the physical
action that more tend attract
intention that is seeking short-term relationship which nonserious, while flirting
polite and sincere style can attract intension pair to long last relationship.
The discovery
was obtained from a reseach taht is
involving more
than 5,100 people,
by observing their way of
communicating romantic
interest, as reported by
the Telegraph,
Monday (27/09/2015).
Researchers
from the University of Kansas, the United States has identified five styles of flirting.Dr. Jeffrey
Hall, PhD, assistant
professor of communication
studies, said the
research results can also match the five styles flirting
with the kinds of relationships that will be owned by teaser.
1.
Playful Flirting Stilye
Flirting
is not the way to achieve the main goal for the teaser of this type.
They are tease just
to maintain his dignity. Teaser
this type are usually not interested in dating
in the long term and tend to have relationships that are less meaningful.
2.
Physical Flirting Style
Someone who
likes flirting style
is typically not hesitate to express his interest in someone he liked. This
type is often undergo relationship so quickly and have emotional
and physical relationship is strong.
3.
Traditional Flirting
Style
This teaser types still
adhere to the old values. They
think that it should be men who pursue women. This
type is believed that men should know exactly who
the woman who became
his target before trying to ask her out.
4.
polite flirting style
A person who
likes the style of flirting like this
always follow the rules and teasing are nonsexual.
Sometimes they are very slow to start, but
if he has been able to establish a relationship with someone, then the relationship will
be quite significant.
5.
sincere flirting style
This teaser types always
want to know that
you are working on. Generally, they have a
genuine interest to establish an
emotional bond with you. This
type were held by women than men.
Relationships established through sincere
temptation is likely
to be meaningful and full of
emotional ties.
Although
everyone show
off aspects of
each style, for
most people is one aspect
will dominate other aspects, and this can affect the type
of the person and the
relationship that is interested
in what is done by him. Dr.
Hall said that if
you do not like the type of person
who is interested in what you do,
it probably means that you have to change your
flirting technique to be successful to get what you like. "The style
tempting indeed tend
to reflect personality and we
do not say that
you can change your
style completely but some changes can help
you get the right
person for a relationship," he
said. "In some ways, the very beginning
of a relationship is critical
to the success of long-lasting
relationships including marriage."
CONCLUSION
Based on our
discuss can be concluded that a relationship can be lost-lasting or
short-lasting depending on the way approach that we do. And the success of a
relationship is sincerity and honesty.
REFERENCE
http://bacaanmu.blogspot.co.id/2011/03/5-gaya-flirting-menggoda.html
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